Sunday, November 21, 2010

they say life's about the process


I thought it was about time for an update on the status of Violet Hills (see blog tab labeled: Violet Hills? for more info, if needed).  It has been quite the journey so far, trying to navigate our way through realizing this dream.  I knew it was going to be hard, a good challenge, but I didn’t know it was going to be this hard.  Let me give you just a surface-level idea of the process so far, and the multiple roadblocks I hadn’t a clue would even exist:

1.) One of my first steps was to talk to the County Planning department regarding zoning regulations, and I was met with unwavering resistance.  I don’t know if I caught this gentleman on a particularly bad day, or if he just doesn’t generally label himself as a helpful person.  He told me our plan wasn’t possible – that anybody in the Green Bluff area or any country location that host weddings, do so illegally.  Whaaaa?  Not possible, right?  People all over the country run this type of business, successfully, and they market that they do so as well, it’s no secret!!  I decided I’d have to tackle this with a different approach, since Mr. Mean wasn’t going to give me any helpful information.  See #2.

2.) My method from that point forward was asking questions to other people, anybody I could think of, that might know any sort of information on how to bring to life this kind of business.  I called other wedding hosting businesses on Green Bluff, and in other outskirt areas of Spokane, and in Oregon, to see how they did it.  Some of them were willing to talk to me, others were not.  Ryan and I went and talked to a candy shop that runs their business out of their home on Green Bluff, to hopefully gain some insight from them as well.  We, of course, purchased some of their delicious candy not only as a “thanks” for sharing, but also in hopes of building a relationship there.  And, duh, we love chocolate, so we have since gone back for more!  From talking to all of these people, I have gained a crucial piece of information – it’s called a conditional use permit.  In a nut shell, a conditional use permit would require us to write a proposal to the county planning department explaining what we want to do, where, and why our business won’t change the environment of the area.  The proposal would go before a county judge, be reviewed, be opened for people to oppose (scary!!), and be either accepted or denied.  From the research we’ve done, we have decided Green Bluff (as opposed to another area out in the country) is probably our only shot, because it’s already hopping with business and busy with cars throughout the year, so Violet Hills wouldn’t necessarily change the environment.  We will continue to research that avenue.

3.) We hired a realtor to keep us in the loop with new properties that go for sale in the Green Bluff area.  We found 2 raw land properties that would be ideal, now if we could just find a few hundred thousand dollars to buy them!  No big deal.

4.) I have met with a certified business planner a few times to get some guidance and expertise on how to approach our plan.  He has been very helpful, has a lot of resources, knows a lot of people in the Spokane area, and I believe will prove to be a crucial piece of the puzzle when we are ready to move forward with making Violet Hills happen.

5.) I have attended a few networking events for work that have also translated into connections on a personal level for Violet Hills.  I have connected with a few photographers, a chocolatier, a wine shop, and an SBA financial specialist at a local credit union.

6.) A few weeks ago, I met with the aforementioned SBA financial specialist to see what our financing options look like for this type of business.  What makes it complicated is Violet Hills wouldn’t only be our place of business, but also our home, so the financing options are tricky; I knew they would be.  Basically, we scored very low on the threshold of “this is possible”, which wasn’t necessarily a surprise to me, but still discouraging.  The fact that we would be a start-up company puts us in the negative from the get-go.  I still don’t have a clear vision of how this piece of the puzzle is going to work out, but I did come away from that meeting with a single goal: SAVE SAVE SAVE money!  That has been, and will continue to be for quite awhile, our main focus.  We’ve shaved down our bills as much as we can, will buy a few Starbucks soy vanilla lattes, run into a few large vet bills I’m sure, will need oil changes and little house repairs, and I’m fairly positive there will be the few shopping splurges for fancy jeans or a new pair of those fabulous, must-have shoes when I’m feeling a weakness there, but for the most part, it’s going into our savings account, to build up and hopefully, eventually, be spent on building our future, bringing to life Violet Hills, Weddings + Events. 
 
 

Monday, October 18, 2010

a love like johnny and june

The summer of 2008 was a very busy one for me.  I had recently started a new job in the spring, and summertime was peeking out at me from just around the corner.  At my age, along with summer comes many weddings.. tis the season!  It just so happens that two very close friends and one very close sister of mine were getting married during the summer of 2008, and it just so happens that I was asked to be in all three weddings.  Funny enough, it also just so happens that they were all in Oregon (I live in Spokane, Washington), and even funnier is that they were all back to back weekends, one right after the other.  Y.I.K.E.S. Since I had just started my new job, I didn't think it would be kosher to ask for two and a half straight weeks off, so yes, I came all the way back up to Spokane in between each wedding.  While I was grateful none of them overlapped - I was one exhausted chica after all of those festivities!

I was the matron of honor at my sister Kris' wedding, and of course wanted to come home a few days ahead of time to help prepare.  The aforementioned (post #1 of my blog) sisters planned this sister's wedding as well, so I wanted to pitch in and be around the family during such a special time!  Kris wanted a very laid-back, peaceful, down-to-earth wedding.  She didn't want to fuss over many details, which is so her style.   She and her (now) husband got married at a beautiful park in downtown Salem, Oregon, and I want to share a few pictures from their wedding, and some of the help I chipped in.  Enjoy!





bride and groom




she loves her classic cars!  this is what she and dad pulled up in before they walked down the aisle together
my beautiful bride sister and I


dad walking her down the aisle



My sister Erin and I made this sign.  It's hard to see, but the bottom left hand side has the lyrics of the song to their first dance.  It was placed at the beginning of the pathway to guide the guests to the wedding area.  They were propped up by old painting easels.  The signs were actually really simple to make - e mail me if you want some guidance!

I love all of the different sized vases displayed here - it's not matchy matchy and gives it an antique feel

They had a few different guest favors to choose from.  Don't tell Kris, but I stole quiiiiiite a few handfuls of the matches.  whooops

Please note the cute little bride and groom paper clipper here







I loved her choice of flowers - very country feel. Money-saver tip: a neighbor down the street from our parent's house has quite a few hydrangea bushes, so we knocked on her door the day before the wedding and politely asked her if we could cut a few, and she was more than happy to contribute, especially since they weren't going to hang on for that much longer!

Another sign my sister Erin and I made.  Kris walked down the aisle to the song "a love like johnny and june" by Heidi Newfield - how stinkin cute is that?  Now she has this sign (and the one above) hanging up in her bedroom.  Perfect double dipper: wedding decor turned home decor

lemonade bar, with all different concentrated flavors and berries to add to your lemonade glass

"love is spoken here"  This sign is hanging on the table that sat behind them during the ceremony

i made her bouquet
stunning

dancing sisters

this is one of my all-time favorite pictures of us 


* All photographs by Valerie Hibler Photography  
* Bride's hair and makeup done by Jennifer Walker of Face Body Beauty

It was such a precious, precious time.  My sister Kris is so very special to me.  I know she loves me something fierce and she has supported me and been there for me in honestly every single step of my life.  My relationship with her holds a very special, untouchable place in my heart, and I would go to the ends of the earth for her.  It was a privilege to be her matron of honor on her big day.  She was a lovely bride!

Monday, October 11, 2010

they call me mellow yellow

I am in love with the color yellow lately.  And this is a new gig for me - yellow has always carried a hint of negativity with it in my mind.  I think it's because I grew up with a family of blonds, and we were always told we should never wear yellow because it blends in with our hair color and therefore washes out our faces.  In the last couple of years, though, I've been saying "so long" to that funny stigma, sorry mom!  I LOVE YELLOW.  Yellow cardigans, yellow necklaces, yellow flowers, yellow dishes, yellow mini coopers, yellow curtains, most of all yellow shoes.  In fact, I just bought some the other day, peep toe flats actually, they are very cute.  Seems like a popular thing this spring and summer was yellow weddings.  So I've reflected back on that and put together this inspiration board for your enjoyment
























* The photos above come from the following sites: Martha Stewart Weddings, Amy Butler Designs, the Knot, and a few other unknown sites.  If you feel your photo has been improperly attributed, please contact me and I will remedy it asap.  


I feel fresh, light, crisp, and airy just looking at these pictures.  A little yellow can brighten up any space, big or small, inside or outside, and add a pep in the step of all your lovely guests.

Yellow Real Wedding

My husband attended the wedding of his childhood best friend this last summer down in La Jolla, California.  I haven't yet had the pleasure of meeting his (now) wife, but I knew once we received their wedding invitation in the mail, we could be best friends, especially if friendships were based solely on similar style tastes.  She decorated with yellow and gray (my personal favorite color companion for yellow), and here are a few highlights from their wedding:


yellow candy sticks for the candy table

i'm pretty sure those are abba zabbas, yes



please note the creative, nontraditional boutonniere

cutie pie flower girl



no yellow here, but i just have to share their other fab pictures!







Saturday, September 18, 2010

find a penny in your pocket mirrors

I think these little pocket mirrors are so darling.

You could personalize them and have one made for each bridesmaid tailored to their name or style or colors or whatever you want.   Or you could make them similar to each other to keep your little tight-knit wedding posse bound together by these precious little accessories.  They could (obviously) stick them in their pockets for an everyday necessity, and even on the day of your wedding tuck them away in their little clutch purse for easy access.

I personally always struggle with how to fit everything I *might* need at a wedding in my clutch, how in the WORLD do those little purses have room for: money, credit cards, drivers license, chap stick, lip stick, lip gloss, cell phone, bobby pins, directions to the wedding site, directions to the reception site, directions to get back home from the reception site, touch up blush, my mirror for those necessary discrete check ups, ibuprofin for that possible headache, camera, gum, mints if I don't feel like chewing on gum, contact case and solution in case my contacts start bothering my eyes, glasses in case of said bothered eyes, allergy pills if it's an outdoor wedding, band aids in case those darn heels rub my feet wrong, or anything else I THINK I might need?

What - you don't bring this loot along with you to the weddings you attend?  Well then, maybe it's just me.  That's usually the way it is for me.  For example, when I go anywhere overnight, I'm known as the "overpacker" - I always get nervous to bring my giant roller suitcase to whoever it is I'm driving with, because I'm just anticipating the judgmental comments:

"Jeez Ali, what'd you bring, everything but the kitchen sink??"
"Holy cow, how much does that thing WEIGH?"  Always emphasis on the weigh, always.
Or just the infamous "Oh.My.Gosh"


It's funny though, because along with those comments, usually sometime during the trip I get a "man, I wish I would have thought to bring _____".  Feel free to fill in the blank yourself.  That's when I go "Yep, I did!  And no, you cannot borrow it because you were mean about the size of my roller suitcase."

Okay, back to the darling pocket mirrors.  They'd also make a ca-uuuttee wedding favor if you buy them in bulk.  You can get them custom-made with your monogram, or even put your names and date of your wedding.

Type "pocket mirror" into Etsy and you'll find a slew of options!

Happy shopping.